I have been in the markets for many years, and I am still failing. I can say that failure is a big part of success, and rather than be discouraged, accept it and embrace it. Unfortunately, we live in a society where failure is frowned upon and is seen as something that is weak. Nothing can be further from the truth.
If you fail and continue to push through and learn from your mistakes, you will come out much stronger on the other side. This is what growth and success is all about. We also live in a society where we are taught to expect that success should happen overnight. This is also a dangerous myth that does nothing but make people feel bad about themselves.
So don't be discouraged if you fail. Only be discouraged if you fail and stop trying. And in the end, I can promise, success is that much sweeter when you have stumbled along the way. After all, what kind of person is the guy who has attained success without stumbling along the way? Probably not someone you would be interested in being or meeting for that matter.
So keep at it and don't feel discouraged the next time you make a mistake. It's supposed to happen that way. Stop being so hard on yourself. 🙂